tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3762433524968339971.post989130048313277161..comments2023-09-29T08:17:08.132-07:00Comments on 3 Moms In 1 (archive): He's a bully. And he's two.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14005671088564014638noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3762433524968339971.post-10031438216511795762010-03-09T17:31:48.406-08:002010-03-09T17:31:48.406-08:00Hey Julie,I would just try to tell her no to the b...Hey Julie,<br><br>I would just try to tell her no to the behavior that you witness and try to stop it at home and explain why it is wrong and that "C" is in the wrong and she wants to be a good girl not a bad girl. <br>Maybe you could talk to her teachers about her being scared and they could try to watch more closely how he interacts with all the kids. You definitely need to reinforce her good behavior and punish bad behavior even if it is learned. <br>It is great she can tell you her feelings, but I know my niece did use to make things up and overdramatize things so you can only react to what you see or the teachers tell you for now.<br><br>Good Luck!Kathy, Kevin, Samanthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06765560144036270969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3762433524968339971.post-35409403389451699322010-03-09T18:17:38.918-08:002010-03-09T18:17:38.918-08:00Julie - I think our girls are leading parallel liv...Julie - I think our girls are leading parallel lives at school. We need to get them together for a play date so we can compare notes. <br>- MegganMeggan Hoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03211715103251273655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3762433524968339971.post-85095102368622413932010-03-09T19:11:02.021-08:002010-03-09T19:11:02.021-08:00Definitely talk to her teachers and let them know ...Definitely talk to her teachers and let them know about the bites. It may have happened when they didn't see. As a teacher, I didn't & couldn't always see EVERYTHING that went on in the room even though I tried my best. <br>She's acting out most likely because she sees C acting out & he's getting attention, albeit negative attention, from his actions. She wants attention too so she mimics what he does. Normal kid behavior. Hey, I'll do what kid C is doing. That looks fun! <br>I would definitly be persistent about C's behavior though with the teachers and let them know how concerned you are and what plans they have in place to modify his behavior, what the rules/consequences are, etc.KellyWhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12349744421998545705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3762433524968339971.post-13626741675737106962010-03-10T04:56:12.495-08:002010-03-10T04:56:12.495-08:00Thanks, ladies. I was really upset about this yes...Thanks, ladies. I was really upset about this yesterday. I just fear that I'm not doing the "right" thing and as a result, Amelia will turn into a bully herself. Or she'll turn into a scared, weak little thing. I want her to stand up for herself, but definitely not with violence.BalancingMama (Julie)http://www.blogger.com/profile/14005671088564014638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3762433524968339971.post-10498727254671753922010-03-10T04:56:12.494-08:002010-03-10T04:56:12.494-08:00Meggan - maybe we should go to a toddler karate cl...Meggan - maybe we should go to a toddler karate class together? ;-)BalancingMama (Julie)http://www.blogger.com/profile/14005671088564014638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3762433524968339971.post-56020641631896246332010-03-10T14:45:52.608-08:002010-03-10T14:45:52.608-08:00Wow. That is SO hard to figure out. I would ask th...Wow. That is SO hard to figure out. I would ask the teachers if the child could be moved to an older class perhaps. I don't know how old your daughter is. I used to be a Kindergarten teacher and I have to say boys are often aggresive and naughty. It is so hard to help some of them. I hope your daughter doesn't have a traumatic time at school any longer. I know that must be very stressful for you. Hopefully the teachers will be able to shed some light on this situation.Life with Kaishonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07874897254332872367noreply@blogger.com